谁解雇了谁？

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Cleanse ：我讨厌John，因为他让我被解雇

Katie：Ok, pleasures (pressures). What did you write?

Ok.你写了什么？

A woman: I wrote, I ‘m angry with john,because he got me fired.

我写的是，我对john生气，因为他让我被解雇了。

Katie: so john got you fired ,is that true?

所以john解雇了你，那是真的吗？

A woman: he fired me.

他解雇了我。

K : so he is the one that actually said youare fired.

所以他实际上对你说——你被解雇了？

A : no.

不是。

K : so john got you fired ,is that true?

所以john让你被解雇了，这是这真的吗？

A: I think so.

我认为是的。

K : so let’s xx than plate and come out with inside of you. Youchoose answer yes or no. john got you fired .

让我们看看你内在的答案。你选择回答是或者不是。john让你被解雇了？

A : （打断凯蒂）I don’t know.

我不知道。

K : I don't know. You are not xxx. See if you can doanother a little search in there. john got you fired. Is it true?

我不知道。来看看你还能不能更深入的看看这个问题。john让你被解雇了，这是真的吗？

A: no

不是。

K : where did you get that ?

你从哪里发现这个不？

A : I got me fired.

我让我被解雇了。

K : give me an example.

告诉我一个例子。

A:because I didn't respect him.

因为我不尊重他。

K : give meanother example. what else?

再告诉我一个例子。

A : I didn't likehim.

我不喜欢他。

K : and how didyou let that show?

那你会怎么表现出来呢？

A :er

额

K : how did youmake sure that he knew that ?

你会如何确保让他知道你不喜欢他呢？

A : I pretended tolisten to him

我假装听他的话。

K : so you didn’tlisten to him. Was he your supervisor?

所以你不听他的话？他是你的主管吗？

A : by default.yes.

默认的情况下，是的。

K : and Was heyour supervisor?

他是你的主管吗？

A : yes.

是的

K : are we funny ?by default .yes.

我们是不是很好笑？默认的情况下，是的。

he was yoursupervisor. And you pretended to listen. which tells me ,according to you .hewas your supervisor you didn't listen

他是你的主管。而就你告诉我的，你不听他的。

A : I didn’t trusthim.

我不信任他。

K：and therefore you didn’t listen?

因此你就不听他的？

A : right.

对。

K : you didn'tlisten. Can you find another example? How were you fired you ?

你不听他的。你还能再找到一个例子吗？你是如何地让你被解雇了？

A: en

嗯

K：you didn’t respect him . you didn’t listen to him. You didn’t trusthim. It is not right or wrong, you know. We trust people or we don’t.

你不尊重他。你不听他的。你不信任他。你知道，我们信任或者不信任别人，是与对错无关的。

A: I think it isright not trust him.

我认为不信任他是对的。

K: that’s where I'm with it.and we don’t always keep our jobs when we are right.

当我们对的时候，不一定总是能保住工作。

How do you reactwhen you think the thought he got me fired?

相信这个念头，他让我被解雇了，你会有什么反应？

A : I have no faith in myself.

我无法相信自己。

K: what else?

还有吗？

A : I don’t takecare of myself. I don’t take care of my family.

我不照顾自己，也不照顾家庭。

K :how does thatfeel?

那种感觉怎样？

A : It feelshorrible.

感觉太可怕了。

K : what wouldyour life be like without the thought john got me fired?

没有这个念头，你的生活是怎样的？

A : it would bemore powerful. I would be more powered.

会更有力量。我会更有力量。

K : when peoplewould say ,what happento your job? I didn’t trust my boss. I didn’t listen to him. I didn’t respecthim .Of course , oh ,whatever, they fired me. And I want my job back. You wantyour job back?

人们可能会说，你的工作怎么啦？——额，我不信任我的老板。我不听他的。我不尊重他。当然，额，就是那么回事，反正，他们解雇我了。而我想要回我的工作。你想要回你的工作吗？

A : I want adifferent job.

我想要别的工作。

K : and I didn’tlike that job anyway . I want a different way. So they help me out .john helpme out with what I couldn’t do myself.

哦，我不喜欢那份工作了。我想要别的工作。所以他们就帮我解脱了。john帮我做了我自己做不到的事。

A : that’s true.

是真的。

K: or it is odd sometimespeople like john he gives so little push .We don’t like the job we have got.And we don’t trust people ……

很奇怪。有时候人们会喜欢john，因为他不给别人压力。我们不喜欢我们拥有的工作。我们不信任别人……

A: 打断 but I hate not having a job.

但我真的很讨厌没有工作。

K : I hear that.So let’s turn the around.

我听到你说了。我们来看看反转。

A : I got mefired.

我让我被解雇了。

K : so examples.you didn’t trust him. You didn’t listen to him. You didn’t respect him .anyother examples of how you got you fired?

嗯，例子就像你不信任他，你不听他的，你不尊重他，还有其他的你让你自己被解雇的例子吗？

A : that seems like a lot.

似乎有好多。

K: it is .but itis so important .because it shows how you to not get fired to the next one.itis xxx.

It will show youamazing ways to apply for jobs ,to get the jobs you want, to …… so much here.

So much inside youthat you already knows. and now it time to rest and do the work. That’s whypeople get fired. It is time out.so john got me fired .can you find another turnaround? Try this one, I got john fired.

的确很多。但它们很重要。因为那些例子告诉你如何不在下一份工作中被解雇。它将向你展现那些令人惊讶的申请工作、得到你想要的工作的方式。在你的内在，你已经知道了很多。现在是时候停下来做做功课了。这就是为什么人会会被解雇的原因。做功课的时候到了。所以john让你被解雇了。你还能找到其他反转吗？试试这个，我让john被解雇了。

A : I got johnfired.

我让john被解雇了，笑。

K  tell me about that.

说说你是如何做的。

A it is like a fantasy. I wish I couldgot him fired.

听起来这纯属幻想，我倒是盼着我能解雇他。

K  and did you share with other people that youdidn’t respect him?

你有没有跟其他人分享你对john的不尊重呢？

A yes

有

K like get someonefired? anything else? any other ways you try to got john fired? Consciously orunconsciously ?

这像不像解雇某人呢？还有其他的吗？其他你让john被解雇的例子？不管是有意的还是无意的。

A I spoke xxx

我说xxx

K: that could getyou fired or him fired? depend on who is listening.

en ,那会让你被解雇，或是他被解雇，取决于什么人听到了。

A I believe happenfor reason and I believe that he did me a favor. but I haven’t been able to getto the other side of it .because I haven’t been able to find another job.and itis taking as  xxx on everything of my life.

我相信一切都有缘由，我相信他真的帮了我一个忙，但我真的无法看到事情的另一面。因为我到现在还找不到一份新工作，而这简直毁了我生活的一切。

K I see you haveanother job. and it is doing inquiry here right now. you know, If we have tohave jobs to be free and happy .threre’s really something wrong .

我看到你已经有一份新工作了。就是此刻在这儿做功课。你知道吗，如果我们不得不拥有一份工作才能得到自由和快乐，一定有一些事错了。

A : that’s what Imet though.that is exactly what I’m .

但这就是我目前遭遇的，这就是我的境况。

K: so let’s try.this is an occupation. so with a job you’re happy no matter who your bossis.and without the job . isn’t that what you want the job for anyway,so you canbe happy?

让我们来试试吧。这才是一种职业。拥有一份工作，你会开心，无论你的老板是谁。而没有一份工作的时候呢，你拥有一份工作其实也只是为了开心，对吗？

A yes

是的

K so let’s behappy from where we are. whatever ways did you try to get them fired?

那么就我们在此时此地立即开心起来吧。你还做了什么让他们被解雇？

Did you mean in the workplace or talk about the men in the workplace?xxxx

你有没有在办公室里说他们的坏话？

A : I didn’t tallabout them in the workplace. I talked about them at home or ……. that’s not true . I talked about them in the workplace.

我没有在办公室里说他们的坏话。我只是在家说。……额，不对，我的确有在办公室里说。

K: I’m so glad youfound that.

我很高兴你发现了这一点。

K:that’s how weget ourselves fired . it not right or wrong. it doesn’t mean you are insane. itis not true. it is just one way for me to get me fired. so when I’m fired, I’mnot shot. and Idon’t point other peopke for get me fired. of course I'm fired.you tell me whyyou fired me or I match xxx.It is really important.

那就是我们如何解雇自己的方式。这与对错无关。这并不意味着你疯了，那不是真的。这只是一种我解雇自己的方式。因此，当我被解雇的时候，我并不是被谁解雇了。我不会指责某人解雇了我。当然，我被解雇了，你告诉我为什么你会解雇我，或者我xxxx。这真的很重要。