Whose Business Are You In?
摘要: Notice when you hurt that you are mentally out of your business.留意当你受伤的时候，你在心里管谁的事。If you're not sure, stop and ask, "Mentally, whose business am I in?"如果你不确定，停下来并问自己 ...
| Notice when you hurt that you are mentally out of your business.留意当你受伤的时候，你在心里管谁的事。 If you're not sure, stop and ask, "Mentally, whose business am I in?" 如果你不确定，停下来并问自己，你在心里管谁的事? There are only three kinds of business in the universe: mine, yours, and God's. 世上只有三种事：我的事，你的事，和神的事。 Whose business is it if an earthquake happens? God's business. 如果一个地震发生了，是谁的事？老天的事。 Whose business is it if your neighbor down the street has an ugly lawn? Your neighbor's business. 如果你的邻居连到街道上的草坪很难看是谁的事？你邻居的。 Whose business is it if you are angry at your neighbor down the street because he has an ugly lawn? Your business. 如果你对你邻居生气因为他的草坪很难看是谁的事？你的事。 Life is simple—it is internal. 生活很简单--他是内化的。 Count, in five minute intervals, how many times you are in someone else's business mentally. Notice when you give uninvited advice or offer your opinion about something (aloud or silently). 数数，在五分钟里，有多少次你心里在管别人的事。注意当你给出并不被接受的建议或你关于某事的建议（说出或默默地说）。 Ask yourself: "Am I in their business? Did they ask me for my advice?" And more importantly, "Can I take the advice I am offering and apply it to my life?" 问你自己：“我是在管他的事吗？他们问我的意见了吗？”最重要的是，“我能够接受把这个建议用在我的生活里吗？”
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