21种保持内心安静的方法(十六)
16、询问你想要的东西 - 给你自己你想要的询问你想要的东西,即使它可能会让你觉得悍或尴尬。人们不知道你想要什么,直到你问他们。询问的动作是一个验证,意识着你是值得拥有你想要的。如果其他人不能或不愿满足您的要求,给你自己你想要的。原文地址(sue的博客:http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_6400ba1d0101j0gt.html)看看今天的你对谁有情绪,因为他没给你想要的。静下来,想想如何可以给自己你想要的,如果快乐自由是你真正要的。还是你非要他给你才OK。那到底是谁在和谁过不去呢?(摘自sue的博客):) 16. Asking for What You Want - Giving Yourself What You Want
Ask for what you want, even though it may feel bold or awkward. People don't know what you want until you ask them. The act of asking is a validation of the awareness that you deserve to have what you want. If others are unable or unwilling to accommodate your request, give it to yourself.
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